📝 YC as a Witness The psychologist Alice Miller spent her career studying one question: why do some people who grow up in brutal circumstances become whole adults while others repeat the cycle? Her answer wasn't resilience. It wasn't grit. It wasn't therapy. It was a witness. Miller found that the single strongest predictor of whether a traumatized child would grow into a functional adult was whether they had at least one person in their life who saw what was happening and believed them. Not…